The title might sound familiar to you, especially for my fellow plurkstars or my in real life friends like Princess, Joseph and Kaye in particular. Yeap, it’s a post, an article about my Tedeebhurr, no rant, no blabbering (or maybe yes) but simply a post to let go of something lying deep in my shoulders. I have told the Poetic Notes readers about
her last week, and now I’m telling it to the unlucky ones who bummed across this personal blog of mine here, a little story on how we’ve met with TeDebHurR, and what for awful start we had and got it going.
Friends of mine like Princess and Joseph might be annoyed when I make use of the word WE here, it’s often misunderstood by these two fellows of mine who strongly believe that I am in love with that girl I’m talking about (which I’m certainly not, but I’m not saying that I don’t love her as a close friend).
We used to be text mates for quiet some time back already, it started either in early 2009 or late 2008 when I acquired her number via Plurk. We didn’t text that much because all that her mouth was talking about was her boy friend, boy friend, and again boy friend. She even crossed the line and once asked if I had some spare load for her so she could subscribe to unlitxt and text her boylet, and even if I had load that time I wouldn’t have sent her any.
In late January 2009. A big problem on her part came up. The grief and regret kept bugging her until just very recently where I noticed her mood change notably for the better.
I made her cry the first time we really engaged in texting during the late hours of March 24, 2009. And I just felt so bad about her problem that I had to wrap-up the last cents of my Paypal account to reload my Globe Mobile Phone and call her.
The short “which I thought to be” advice session ended up into discussion beyond that issue and far out topics. We became friends in other words and close to each other. No words really fit what happened that night, which made me feel comfortable in talking to her, especially teasing her stuff to which she’d respond “anchama mo” (pronounced how I spelled it).
We talked ’til our cellphones heated up and ’til I unconsciously came to close my eyes around 4 in the morning. And around 3 in the morning, the word, calling, endearment (di naman kami eh) TeDebHurR was invented. The word itself was courtesy of her, while the counterpart, who’s me, came up with the spelling of it. Now that’s what I consider kulit!
It was not anymore about her problem. It was about us. How I could keep up communicating with her, how I could keep her happy mood. I don’t know if I have played any role in this process but from the point of view that I see her right now, it suggests that these TeDeebHurR stuff has kept her off the mark for a while about her problem back then. And I recall her saying that she totally hates that recent guy now.
What’s the sense of writing this post, you might ask? But, why do you care anyway? I’m the one providing the content here on my personal blog and if you dislike it, then leave it. Kidding.I thought to share this to my friends to clear out some points. We’re not on, and there’s nothing much but a strong bond of friendship between the two of us. Of course I love her like I would love any of my friends, but (ou na nga) there’s something special seeded. Well, she used to be my crush on Plurk for some time now and it was just the best shot that I could get that night to talk to her and close in to her. Snob yun sa text dati eh, busing-busy sa boylet.
The problem though, that I have always been facing is the distance between me and her which hinders me to close even further in. I mean yes, there’s the trust, there’s the care, but it’s pretty much different if I could see her face with a painted smile on it. Kirae, Marbie, you name them all. None of these admirable close friends of mine developed into a in-depth relation due to the distance. One from Paranaque and the latter from Quezon/Cebu. It just doesn’t work out, and I have enough of stuff like that.
I just want to say that I am happy. And yes, it’s good to know that she’s happy too that she has known me and that this bond of TeDeebHurR exists. Even if there was a time when she ignored me a whole weekend long because according to what she felt back then, I closed in too much.
All, and everything that I could do for now is to keep the communication up and who knows, I’d beat all odds and strike against whatever negative both parties of my male and female best friends have towards Grace Anne. :p
Okay, I sound crazy and like an addict, but I have to admit that I really did the impossible thing, something that I have never done before which was pasting her face in front and inside the cover of my mobile phone’s back. I was confused where to actually place it, so I tried both locations. I’m sharing this because I want to shout out to the ate/kuya of that little stupid stinky child that poured his saliva on the picture to replace it. HAHAHAH. LOLL.




I won't be bitter to you, promise. I'm happy you found a new friend. But just take care, you easily slip! :$
wow! ganda ng lovestory nato ahh
talagang inubos mu pa pera mu sa paypal pra sknya
gling ~ goodluck sa inyu.. at sa TeDeebHurR nyu. hahahaha XD
nice.
Wow Love … I remember those days when I felt the same. Sadly, as we grow old … things change. Good Luck to Love and Life
lol. may picture pa talaga. haha ganda daw ng love story ha. lol. wala padin yung inaabangan ko.
Wow, Kevin. You got a post out. Pasalamat ka hindi tayo magkita hanggang Monday. And that's what you call friendship, writing about someone on your blog? No, I'm not jealous, but hello? Is that still friendship what you feel or does the comments of the others in regards of LOVE are true? No, I know that you're overwhelmed by what you feel for YOUR FRIEND. But you know where it often ended up.
This is not friendship, but love what you feel. But go for it, I won't hinder you anymore. Pick up the trash that other people left behind. Panakipbutas boy. Dati ka pa sa isa mong ex ganyan eh?
Lastly, if you delete this one you really suck.
Reading the article… Then snap, an adsense in the middle of the post… Okay… Continues to read..
LMAO, LMAO
I read your GM. I bet you did not let her read that GM. Does it start hurting? Better start thinking.
bakit laging may gulo dito? peace!
How kind from you, that's what I always LoveD about you. Your never ending support for me! Haha. Hangin? At last, it isn't that HOT then!
Was naman ko naga text text sa dalan di na ko maslide. Ayaw ka-hadlok inday. hahahahaha.
Kaya pala uto uto ka kay Kevin kasi kahit saan suportado mo siya! Fools.
Hello Chi, thanks for dropping by, anung nice dun? haha.
Love Story? Eh, 68 cents lang inubos ko sa paypal ko. hahahaha. Good luck sa amin ni TedeeBhurr? you make me LOL hahahahah
Parang kilala ko ang inaantay niyo? Ako ba? Pasensiya I have got better things to do the whole day.
kapal naman ng face mo. sino ka naman para hintayin ko
Cool ka lang. Sa akin ka magalet wag sakanya. Anu ba.
Whoever deletes this is a bitch and is so self-denying the fact that something deep inside is starting to hurt. WE all WARNED you WAY before this happened.